Don't apologize. It's why I asked, seriously. That's the whole point of this little group. We support each other, even when it comes to non-fandom stuff. I wouldn't call you guys my friends if I didn't mean it.

I really wish there was something I could do or say to reassure you. We just need to keep fighting. Vee and I are moving to New York. We'll finally be able to get married. But it won't be recognized in any state that doesn't recognize it. Such a stupid, stupid fucking amendment (The 14th? I think, trumps the 9th for gay rights. States rights, thanks to the Civil War)

Hang in there. Just keep going. One day at a time. <3